FREE WILL OR FATE, OR DESTINED FOR DESTINY......
Fate is a changeable future, while Destiny is inevitable, You can choose your Fate, but not your Destiny......
Hardships often prepare ordinary people, for an extraordinary Destiny......
Meeting you was, FATE
Becoming your friend was a choice, FREE WILL
But falling in love with you was beyond my control, DESTINY......
Nothing is accidental in this universe; everything happens for a reason, the future is cast in stone, but when we reincarnated God gave us a great gift, the gift of free will, so that we can change our future with our choices, but each and every choice that we make has an outcome, which is already predestined for us, that is Destiny. Do you understand the consequences of each and every one of our thoughts, words and action, and where it can lead us?
We have lived hundreds of lifetimes as humans, and after each birth, our karmic actions are reviewed, by our higher self, the soul and our spiritual guides without judgement, and accordingly we decide then, the next course of action probably another birth, to make changes and amendments for our past mistakes, to learn, to experience, to feel and give love unconditionally, to evolve further in the spiritual realm, although we may not be aware consciously of what has happened in our past life, but our souls carry the memories of all our past deeds, our negative karma’s can be gradually erased when we consciously make positive changes in our earthly life.
Our life is controlled by number of factors, first and foremost our cultural background, other peoples choices like our family, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, our astrological configuration (is the occult powers by the stars), which is directly influenced by actions in our past births, our thoughts, will power, feelings, emotions and our interaction with others in our vicinity, is responsible for more karmic deeds in our present birth.
There are lot of material and different views are propounded regarding free will and destiny, and most of them are quiet true, you will get a broader view when you read them, we are not here just to work, make money, enjoy ourselves or be religious, go to the church, say our prayers regularly, yes it will help to find peace. We are here because god wants to experience his highest consciousness through our physical bodies, we are here to balance our energies the yin and the yang, we are here to pay off our karmic debts, to grow and evolve spiritually, and when there is a perfect balance, our consciousness spreads, to each and every soul, to every living and non living organism, time and space shrinks, and the laws of the universe is revealed to us.
In this realm God has provided us with everything, before we take birth we decide who our parents, siblings, extended family will be. Our birth place, village, city, country, whether we are born to wealth and affluence or in impoverished surroundings, everything is predefined, our boundaries are fixed before our descent, this we call Destiny, we have no choice, a redemption for our past mistakes and wrong choices, but this earthly realm is our playground, here we can use our will and choice to face our current life challenges, to make changes in future, the ball is in our court and we can manoeuvre our life in the right direction to hit the goal. They say we often meet our destiny in the path we take to avoid it how true, if we are tuned to nature, we will see synchronous events which will point us to our destiny, but in many cases we refuse to take the path, for varied reasons, maybe it is not attractive, is arduous, or does not pay well, we prefer easy going paths.
For example we may be born to parents who are teachers, perhaps destiny placed us in a circumstance were we could follow teaching as a profession, perhaps to redeem our past karmic debts in this particular profession with certain people who are going to cross our path maybe in the near future, but we choose to join the acting field, which is not meant for us, but the path maybe right for others, not for us, but we chose the path because it will expose us to a better life of name, fame and wealth, after all we have our free will and free choice to choose things our way, what happens here is we are deviating from the path set by our soul, and eventually instead of breaking free from the vicious reincarnation circle we create more karma’s with more people. Here I would like to make myself very clear by saying that there are no right or wrong paths, our paths are chosen by our soul depending upon our karmic deeds in different births, but we have our free will and choices once we descend to this realm, we are lured by the attractions of this enchanting, transitory world. Men and women exhibit traits of greed, jealousy spite, arrogance, it destroys relationship between people, many breach all societies norms to amass wealth, greed lures them to the wrong path where they ultimately resort to drugs, alcoholism, murder, suicide, have flings, strings of affair with wrong people, go bankrupt, sometimes people maybe in the right path, but resort to wrong means in the course and lose everything in the long run, and this happens in case if this is not the predestined path set by the soul.
I would like to give another example, Dave meets Kathy, in an unusual circumstance, there is no love at first sight stuff, but they are attracted to each other, somewhere deep inside, he is being guided towards her, they are meant to be or destined to be with each other, that’s the path predefined by the soul, but Dave finds Carol far more attractive and vivacious, its love at first sight stuff, here he uses his free will and choice, to gradually moves towards her, in many cases this type of relation works for some time, because of the love factor and romance involved, but eventually falls apart, due to personal differences as they were not meant for each other, unfortunately he has created karmic debts with both Kathy and Carol.
In any case, be it relations, different occupations, venturing into new territory for jobs, business, or to find a new house, observe the synchronous events that surround you, either they help you or warn you of impending dangers, dreams that will reveal to you, spirit guides who will guide your path if you are open to communication from the other side, or else you will sleep walk through the whole connection, by the time you have realized your mistakes, it’s too late to make amends, or redress your grievances for the damages done to your reputation, emotions, and health. Acquisition of materialistic wealth for physical comforts is good, but not to the extent of sacrificing our health and family, squandering wealth in frivolous pursuits will ultimately destroy us, but used for the right purpose, will always benefit us and others in the long run by creating good karma’s. We should have good moral, cultural, and intellectual values, good sexual relations, a right balance of food and sleep; enjoy social gatherings and parties, but nothing should be done in excess. We have to keep good, positive people around us, remember eventually our wealth, good looks, name and fame does not matter. Ultimately, how we interacted with others, our positive thoughts, words and actions in relation to each and every individual who crossed our path matters, the rest will remain on this earthly plane for others to enjoy.
The more we balance ourselves the less pain we will cause to others, and to ourselves, we will make greater progress in our lives, we have to find a balance in all fields of our lives, in our professional and personal relationships, to give love and care for others is a part of our earthly mission, but not at the expense of ourselves, because we have to be happy first before we give happiness to others, we should be like the sun, or a candle which lights its world before it gives light to the others, look at the trees they bloom, with flowers and fruits, before they give it to others, they do so silently, they do not take the credit for it, we have to give unconditional love to others, like mother nature, which protects, feeds and nurtures without expectations.
In every incarnation our souls learn that good thoughts, words and deeds bring us joy, when we help those in need it gives us tremendous happiness and raises our energy level, our positive experience will help us to grow, evolve, and repay our karmic debts.
In the end we will complete our life cycle and go back to the source that is our original home to the Almighty.......